Pagan Love Spells for Commitment and Fidelity

You've probably heard that the moon’s phases can influence love magic. What most people miss is how much the waxing and full moons amplify commitment and fidelity rituals. When intention meets timing, your spell’s message becomes unmistakably clear.

In this guide, you’ll learn how to align with lunar energy, prepare meaningful tools like wax poppets and anointed candles, and cast a Full Moon Binding Spell step-by-step. If you prefer expert help, shop real love spells that work today or get your binding spell cast by a verified spell caster.

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Moon Phases for Love Spells: Waxing vs. Full Moon

Each lunar phase carries a distinct signature. The waxing moon helps you grow what you want—more affection, better communication, deeper emotional connection. It’s ideal for building bonds, setting intentions, and customizing your ritual for your unique situation.

The full moon radiates peak power. This is the window for binding and commitment rituals, when you want to seal the promise you’ve been cultivating. Laying groundwork during the waxing moon and completing a binding at the full moon produces a coherent, powerful arc.

Full Moon Binding Spell for Commitment and Fidelity

Use this ritual to stabilize commitment and fidelity under the full moon’s peak energy. Ethics matter: focus on strengthening an existing bond, not overriding consent.

What You’ll Need

• Red or pink wax poppets (handmade from melted candle wax) representing both partners
• One red candle (anointed with conjure oil such as Bound To Me Oil)
• Long red or blue thread for binding
• Optional: herbs/crystals/personal concerns (photos, a strand of hair)

When to Cast

Begin on the first night of the full moon and continue for three consecutive nights to sustain energy and imprint your intention.

Steps

1. Craft the poppets: Shape two wax figures to represent both partners. Place the red candle between them.
2. Anoint and align: Dress the candle with Bound To Me Oil. Hold the candle and clearly state your shared intention.
3. Ignite and visualize: Light the candle. Recite: “I am bound to thee, and thee to I.” See trust deepening and commitment stabilizing.
4. Bind with thread: On the final night, wrap the red or blue thread around both poppets and the candle, symbolically uniting them.
5. Complete the burn: Allow the candle to burn safely to completion on the last night to fully activate the spell.

Essential Ritual Components (and Why They Matter)

• Wax poppets: Embody both people and give your intention a physical focal point.
• Red candle: Represents love, passion, and devotion; burning builds momentum over multiple nights.
• Conjure oil: Dressing the candle with Bound To Me Oil magnifies fidelity and commitment.
• Red/blue thread: Red emphasizes passion; blue underscores calm faithfulness and trust.
• Personalization: Photos, letters, hair, or shared mementos personalize and significantly increase efficacy.

Spell Timing Considerations

The moon’s glow is a powerful ally. Time your steps to match its flow for stronger outcomes:

Conducting Your Love Spell with Confidence

Start by setting a crystal-clear intention. Choose a waxing or full moon night and gather your items: a red candle, blue thread, and any personal items that represent your partner or relationship.

Anoint the candle with Bound To Me Oil, a fidelity-focused blend with honeysuckle and periwinkle. As you light the candle, recite binding phrases and tie knots in the blue thread, visualizing mutual commitment. Your clarity and emotional presence are the true engines of this work.

Post-Spell Practices: Storing, Reflecting, Reinforcing

What you do after the ritual can be as impactful as the ritual itself.

Storing Ritual Materials

Keep leftover wax and personal concerns in a safe, discreet, and respectful space—a dedicated pouch or box works well. This preserves energy, serves as a reminder of your intention, and supports consistent results.

Reflecting on Intentions

Revisit your intention a few days after the ritual. Ask: “Does this still reflect the healthiest outcome for both of us?” Adjust your journaling or petitions if needed.

Reinforcing Relationship Bonds

• Schedule regular heart-to-heart conversations.
• Consider supportive rituals like Faithfulness Spells or protection work to maintain harmony.
• Use communication helpers like the Text Me Spell to nurture understanding.

Bound To Me Oil: Overview and Benefits

Bound To Me Oil is a popular choice for strengthening emotional bonds and fidelity. Handmade daily and available in a ½ oz. glass bottle for $8.99 USD with free shipping on orders $75+, it blends honeysuckle (attraction), periwinkle (fidelity), and complementary botanicals to reinforce commitment.

Use it to dress candles, dab on jewelry, or anoint photographs. Many users observe quick shifts in affection and closeness. Always ensure your target is emotionally available and that your intention respects free will and mutual consent.

Key Ingredients in Binding Oil (and Why They Work)

• Honeysuckle: Attracts love and heightens romance.
• Periwinkle: Supports loyalty and faithful commitment.
• Apple leaves: Encourages emotional balance and harmony.
• White willow bark: Reinforces dedication in commitment work.
• Coriander: Deepens emotional attachment and potency.

Applying Binding Oil Effectively

Focus on intention while anointing. A little goes a long way. Here are effective applications:

For extra attraction, combine Bound To Me Oil with compatible blends and speak your intention clearly. Bind a ribbon or thread around an object or photo to symbolize devoted fidelity.

Personalizing Your Love Spell for Stronger Results

Personal touches make your magic unmistakably yours. Embed the poppets with small personal items (e.g., a strand of hair, fabric) to deepen energetic linkage. Use incantations that sound natural to you—words you truly feel will hold the most power.

Choosing the Right Conjure Oil

Match the oil to your goal:

• Rose Oil: Attraction and romantic love
• Jasmine Oil: Sensuality and deeper emotional bonding
• Myrrh + Sandalwood: Devotion, fidelity, and sacred commitment

Blend oils to create a custom signature for your intention and anoint both poppets and candles to align all elements with your desired outcome.

The Role of Meditation in Love Spells

Meditation grounds your mind and amplifies focus. Before casting, meditate on your desired outcome for a few minutes, then visualize it vividly during the ritual. Afterward, use post-spell meditations to keep your intention alive and aligned.

Combining Herbs with Love Spells

Herbs can soften tension and strengthen bonds:

• Rosemary: Intensifies commitment and clarity
• Lavender: Calms emotions and promotes fidelity
• Basil: Encourages trust and protective love

Sprinkle around the candle, mix into the wax of poppets, or tuck into a small sachet placed beneath your pillow.

Using Crystals to Enhance Love Spells

Rose quartz supports unconditional love and healthy self-worth; moonstone helps you tap lunar currents. Place crystals around your working or hold one while reciting your incantation to boost resonance.

Need Personalized Guidance?

Get real-time insight before you cast. Chat live with a trusted reader for tailored timing, compatibility checks, and ritual refinements.

Recommended Love Spells and Services

• Love Binding Spell — for deep commitment work during full moons.
• Faithfulness Spell — reinforce loyalty and trust.
• Bring Back Lost Lover — reunite the bond before sealing it.
• Text Me Spell — open lines of communication.
• Marry Me Spell — move from commitment to proposal.

Browse more at the Love Spells Collection or shop curated love magic.

What Clients Say

Frequently Asked Questions

What materials do I need for a love binding spell?

Red or pink wax for two poppets, a red candle dressed with conjure oil, a long red or blue thread, and optional items like herbs, crystals, or personal concerns (photos, hair).

When is the best time to cast a commitment spell?

Use the waxing moon to build closeness and the full moon to seal commitment and fidelity. Start on the full moon’s first night for peak potency.

Does a binding spell override someone’s free will?

Ethical spellwork respects free will. Focus on strengthening an existing, consensual connection—not controlling someone who isn’t emotionally available.

How quickly can results appear?

Some notice shifts within days, while others see gradual changes over 1–3 lunar cycles. Consistency, clarity, and ethical alignment matter most.

Can I personalize the ritual?

Absolutely. Personalized incantations, photos, letters, hair, and relevant herbs or crystals can significantly enhance your results.

Bring Your Heart’s Intention to Life

Love grows where attention flows. Align with the moon, prepare with care, and speak your truth. If you’d like expert support, book a professional Love Binding Spell or shop the Love Spells Collection and take your next step with confidence.