Is It Possible To Get Back Together With An Ex Or Is It Better Not To?

Is it possible to get back together with an ex?

For people who broke up with a major and complicated problem which had been found to have no resolve, it may be better to not to attempt getting back with their ex. But in most cases where a breakup happened for shallow and petty reasons, the answer is yes, it is possible to get back together with an ex.

In this article, you will find tips and advices on winning your ex back. This will put an end to many desperate people's questions if is it possible to get back together with an ex. This will help you retrieve what has been lost for quite a while and start a new, fruitful relationship with your ex.

First, you have to focus on yourself above anything else. It will all start with your very own self and how you can handle the situations that may arise in the future as you try to get back together with your ex. Do you find focusing on yourself simple? You may respond with a bragging "certainly", but if you are having trouble in controlling your instincts, say, barraging your ex with desperate messages sent through text or email, then it's not easy at all. You have to learn how to be independent and live on your own in order for you to regain the strength you lost in the process of breaking up. Accept that you are no longer going out together and there's no "you and him" or "you and her" at the moment which makes it unnecessary for you to bombard him or her with hundreds of messages that contain only words of begging and desperation. It will only drive your ex off from reuniting with you as such actions may only appear demanding and pushy which is definitely not what he or she wants. Just be patient and reassess your capabilities that can make your ex want you back.

Secondly, play chase. Instead of continually showing your ex that you want him or her back so badly, why not let him or her wonder why you're acting cool with the breakup thing by actually acting neutral with the situation. You feel bad that it happened, that's granted, but at the same time, you feel glad that it's happening. Being passive post-breakup can lead to your ex reaching out to you instead of you reaching out to him or her. He or she may ask how come you seem so composed. This will then give you the opportunity to ask your ex on why on earth he or she even cares on how you're doing. Sweet, isn't it?

The last step in winning your ex back is to allow yourself and your ex to just go with the flow after he or she has started to communicate with you. Your ex may ask you out and you must first confirm the reason behind the act before affirming. If your ex said that he or she wants to talk about the tragic end of your relationship, decline the invitation. But if his or her intention is for you to "settle" the unsettled, and then go, accept the request. Keep in mind that when you talk with your ex, you don't have to tackle about how your relationship ended. It's not about the "how", it's about the "why". Finding answers to the cause/s of a breakup is what's vital as they help both of you to solve the problem together, this time in a calm and respectful manner. No shouting, no words of bitterness and no blaming.

Now, answer. In your case, is it possible to get back together with an ex? I hope it is!